It's a common phrase heard after a family ends up in the courtroom due to a domestic violence case. When someone you love hurts you, it can feel easier to minimize it. 

Stress builds. Bills pile up. Alcohol or other substances being used to numb the struggles of life. Suddenly a bad night becomes a day in court. 

Bail money you weren't expecting

A no-contact protection order. 

Having to separate homes and finances

Monitored discussions about your children. 

Try to find a different path before law enforcement becomes involved: 
• Alcohol and substance use treatment
• Parenting classes and family support programs
• Counseling for individuals and couples
• Job and education programs that build financial stability

Asking for help early can help protect the people you love most.