February is recognized nationwide as Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month (TDVAM) a time to educate, raise awareness, and help young people recognize the signs of unhealthy and abusive relationships.

Teen Dating Violence, also known as intimate partner violence, can include physical, psychological, sexual, and electronic abuse. It can occur with a current or former dating partner and often begins with behaviors that teens may mistakenly believe are “normal” parts of a relationship.

What may seem like teasing, jealousy, or constant communication can quickly become controlling and abusive.

Common warning signs of Teen Dating Violence include:

• Sending repeated and unwanted messages
• Cyberstalking or constantly checking a partner’s location through apps or social media
• Pressuring a partner to perform sexual acts or send explicit photos
• Frequent criticism, humiliation, or insults
• Refusing to take responsibility for harmful actions
• Isolating a partner from friends or family
• Spreading rumors about a partner’s sexual activity
• Going through a partner’s phone without permission

Many teens who experience these behaviors do not report them. Often, they do not recognize the behaviors as abusive, or they feel embarrassed, fearful, or stigmatized about speaking up.

Our goal is not only to prevent violence in our community, but also to ensure that those who are experiencing abuse know they are not alone and that help is available.

What Students and Parents Should Know

Sexual harassment and dating violence are illegal. Schools have a legal obligation to respond to reports of Teen Dating Violence and to provide a safe learning environment for all students in classrooms, on school buses, and during school activities.

Every school is required to have:

• A clear procedure for students to file complaints
• A designated Title IX Coordinator to receive reports of discrimination, harassment, or violence

Students have the right to feel safe at school and in their relationships.

Prevention Starts with Awareness

Prevention is key. While resources exist for those who have been victimized, the best protection is education and early intervention.

By modeling respectful relationships, encouraging healthy communication, setting boundaries, and speaking up when we see warning signs, we can help teens build relationships that are healthy, respectful, and safe.

Help Is Available 24/7

If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, or you would like more information, confidential help is available 24 hours a day, 365 days a year:

SafeNet – 814-454-8161
Safe Journey – 814-438-2675

All services are free and confidential.

Educate Your Teen. Spread Awareness. Know the Signs.
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